Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Onward to the Next Decade

Another year nearly over. Wow. Lately I've not had much time to post, with a new business to manage, a flat to run and a family to look after. Christmas came and went without my once feeling the holiday spirit. I did get all the presents bought, wrapped and delivered, but that is all in the course of a woman's work.

The past two months have been a flurry of activity. In mid-November, Little A visited a developmental pediatrician to assess the cause of his speech delay and see what course of action would be best to take. The doctor advised Occupational Therapy for behavioural modification and sensory integration, as Little A is very sensitive to textures - hating grass, sand and most forms of fabric upholstery, refusing to wear shoes - and does not respond to instructions nor interact much with others.

We visited a couple of therapy centers and managed to choose one and squeeze in the evaluation before they closed down for the year. Little A also started preschool two mornings a week at this same time. Yesterday, we took him for a sleeping hearing test called the BAER, which measures the brain's response to sound at different levels.

Little A's left ear was fine, responding from a level of 25 up to 90 decibels. His right ear, which the neurologist in charge of the examination told us is normally the dominant side, was less responsive, only showing a reaction to the sound at a high 95 decibels.

The formal report on the test will only be released next week (or next year, depending on how one looks at it) and will be explained to us by Little A's pediatrician, who will also recommend a suitable course of action.

It is a small load off my mind to have seen that there may be a physical reason why Little A isn't talking yet. We still don't know what the final diagnosis will be, but whatever it is, we are praying it is something we can address early and well enough to give him the chances he deserves as he grows older.

I have much to be thankful for for the past year, but even more to hope for in the one to come. Here's hoping a good decade for our family is up ahead.


leah said...

I found your blog through google- I hope you get everything settled with the hearing situation soon! Our little guy wears hearing aids (a moderate loss in both ears) and they help him a lot. Good luck as you move forward!

Stepford Mum said...

Thank you for visiting, Leah! I wasn't aware this blog could be found on Google, but I am not very tech-savvy. I will probably ask you for more advice re: the hearing situation as we learn more from the doctors.

Peter S. said...

Hi, Iya! Happy New Year! I hope your son's hearing situation can be resolved soon.

Stepford Mum said...

Thanks, Peter! We're hoping the situation is something we can resolve this year. Hope 2010 started out great for you - I'm looking forward to reading your reviews all year.