To look at those photos, one would say they were snapshots in the life of a very typical tween. And indeed they are, because life with autism is simply more challenging for all involved, but otherwise very much the same as a "regular" child's life. Little A lacks siblings and peers his age to play with, but doesn't seem lonely, as he is constantly on the move and in search of something active to do. He knows he can command full attention of a parent, teacher or therapist when needed, and perhaps this gives a little bit of a sense of security.
I don't mean to try and voice Little A's thoughts or feelings, most of which are total mysteries as he still cannot articulate them, but on the whole his nature is cheerful and loving, and he is fortunate to be a few yards away from The Mind Museum, Adventure Zone, the climbing gym, and a large swimming pool. As the parent who spends most time with him, I would say he is a happy child.
Unlike typical children his age, he has never asked for an expensive videogame or gadget, nor does he want to see the latest movies or tv shows. Happy with his iPad, favourite books and regular visits to museums and classical concerts, he cares not a jot about whether his trainers are the newest and trendiest style, so long as they fit comfortably.
There are many things I wish for my son, but after this year's hospital scare, we are all about making the most of every opportunity that comes our way. Carpe Diem!
